Welcome
A note before you begin
Take your time. There are no trick questions. Every application is read personally.
Your answers save on this device as you go, so you can step away and pick up right where you left off.
So we can save your answers and reply to you.
We'll save your progress and may send you one reminder if you don't finish.
Your name, gender, and date of birth.
Helps us find introductions close to you. US ZIP codes only (5 digits).
We will only introduce you to people within this range.
There's no wrong answer here.
Just the big picture.
People look for very different things.
Same idea.
For matching only. Never appears on your profile.
Your words.
For compatibility, not judgement.
Whatever fits you best.
Pick all that apply. At least one.
Your own personal hope, separate from openness to a partner's children.
Pick any that apply. A big compatibility signal.
Pick any that apply, or skip this one. This question is optional.
Select your preferences below.
An honest 6 is better than a performative 10.
Pick at least 5 that feel true.
Choose 3 to 5. These form the foundation of your matches.
Pick at least 2.
Pick at least 5. Helps us filter before you ever have to say no.
Pick at least 3 that resonate with you.
Select all that apply. We use this to understand your experience, not to judge it.
Your role, title, or field, however you describe it.
Honest is best. This stays with the matching team, it never appears on your profile.
A clear photo of your face. A recent phone photo is fine.
Only our matching team sees your photos. You can add more later, up to 6.
Helps our team confirm you're a real person. Used internally only, never shown to matches. You can skip this.
A short paragraph in your own words. Who you are, what you love, what makes you you. The more you share, the better we can match you.
Anything you want us to know about who you're open to. Not a checklist, just a feeling. The more detail, the better the match.
Helps us understand where to focus. No wrong answer.
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